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鈥淲hen my 8-year-old came to ask me what was going on in Bahrain [in 2011]鈥︹�� remembers Basil, a Bahraini, 鈥淗ow do you explain this to an 8-year-old? I had to do it carefully. I actually told her some people are fighting over who loves Bahrain more. And then she asked me, Baba, are we Sunnis or Shias? This truly hurt. I told her, we鈥檙e Muslims. That鈥檚 it.鈥�

When political conflict escalated in February 2011 in Bahrain, 鈥渋t was like an instant separation,鈥� recalls Yasmine, another Bahraini.聽Sunnis聽on one side, Shias on the other. But the situation was more complicated than pure sectarianism.

鈥淭he sectarian issue is a very complicated one,鈥� notes Jane Kinninmont, senior research fellow on the Middle East and North Africa Programme at the聽 think tank聽in the United Kingdom. 鈥淭he political disputes in Bahrain don鈥檛 fall neatly along Sunni/Shia lines. Part of what is going on is good old-fashioned class politics; the places that have been most involved in protests have been places that are relatively economically marginalized and where young people feel that they don鈥檛 have much of a stake in the country. But their view of the government will often be quite different than those that have a same religious belief and a different educational and class background.鈥�

Now, Bahrain has a strong tradition of civil society and political dialogue with established nongovernmental organizations (NGO), media and a parliament鈥攎ore so than many of its Gulf neighbors. Movements calling for greater can be traced to 1938, through the 1950s, 1960s and into the 1990s. And these movements were sometimes Sunni-led, sometimes cross sectarian, sometimes secular.

In 2001, Bahrainis voted by popular referendum on a National Action Charter, a draft constitution outlining legislative, judicial, political and economic reform. The document included considerations like granting women鈥檚 suffrage, an elected parliament and transitioning the nation into a constitutional monarchy鈥�98.4% of Bahrainis voted in favor of this National Action Charter on February 14, 2001.

A year later, the constitution was practically implemented, 鈥渁nd that鈥檚 where problems started to arise,鈥� says Yacoub, a politically active Bahraini. 鈥淏ecause the opposition at the time were not very happy with how the constitution came out. They felt that the soul of the National Action Charter wasn鈥檛 really realized through the constitution.鈥�

Bahrain in 2011

But life moved on. Fast-forward 10 years: A revolution begins in Tunisia, another in in Egypt, and a group of Bahrainis create this Facebook page urging citizens to take to the streets on February 14, 2011. In the first two weeks, estimates place the opposition crowds at the iconic Lulu Roundabout at around 100,000 on some occasions. Whereas elsewhere on the island, pro-government supporters congregated in places like Al Fateh Mosque as an alternative forum, and estimates place these crowds also at around 100,000.

The two sides reductively became associated with their representative sects: the pro-government supporters were associated with Sunni Islam because the ruling family is Sunni, and the opposition protesters were associated with Shia Islam, a disputably claimed majority of the Bahraini population (often cited as between 60-70%).

Regardless of their religious affiliations, however, each side was fragmented further in their ideologies and political demands.

The political crisis, as it was felt on the streets in the small island of 1.3 million people, had severe social consequences.聽鈥淎 lot of people took the saying, 鈥業f you aren鈥檛 with me; you鈥檙e against me鈥� to heart,鈥� remembers Basil. 鈥淎 civil uprising shouldn鈥檛 take place in a culture like this. Who will we fight against? We are brothers and sisters, one family. Most people don鈥檛 realize how small and interrelated Bahrainis are.鈥�

Polarizing divides

鈥淚鈥檓 not a politician,鈥� says Suhail Algosaibi, founder and chairman of the聽聽(BFRCD). 鈥淚 can鈥檛 bring the government and the opposition together and talk; it鈥檚 not within my scope. So I had the idea of doing something on a societal level.鈥�

Suhail rallies some friends together and starts the BFRCD in 2012 as an apolitical reconciliation effort. The BFRCD gathers, at least once a month since their launch to date, seemingly opposing people together for a seminar, workshop, field trips to South Africa and聽, for unity prayers where Shias and Sunnis pray side by side, or for what they call dialogue dinners.

鈥淲e try and mix both noble sects, Shia and Sunni; we try and mix ideologies, people who are perhaps more pro-government, more opposition leaning; we try and bring young and old people together; and we try to always have some representation from the ruling family.鈥�

Suhail invites an intimate group of 30-40 individuals to his late father鈥檚 house for dinner and a discussion. The nightly themes vary from the role of media in reconciliation, to religious authorities, to general open dialogue. Each attendee has the floor for three to four minutes to speak and, invariably, people pour their hearts out.

鈥淔unnily enough, when people get the chance to talk, they don鈥檛 really answer the question. They vent out what鈥檚 kept inside,鈥� muses Yacoub, who has attended three or four of these dinners as a BFRCD member.

The dinner party pauses halfway through and enters another room for dinner. 鈥淎nd this is usually where the interesting conversations will come out because everyone鈥檚 vented out and can relax,鈥� continues Yacoub. 鈥淎nd we would chat about regular stuff, what do you think about this, what do you think about this.鈥� After dinner, the group resumes the dialogue part of the evening, 鈥淎nd again, everybody would have a turn to say something, and usually these second rounds become, sort of, more quiet. The tone is much quieter, it鈥檚 more relaxed.鈥�

鈥淔or us, we don鈥檛 even want people to agree on something,鈥� says Suhail. 鈥淲e just want them to look at the other side, and say he鈥檚 not a monster, he鈥檚 not really crazy. And I think that鈥檚 the magic of this: Is to let them see the other person as a human being.鈥�

As you might imagine, the role of the facilitator is key to this process: 鈥淢y role is not to reinterpret the meanings because it means what it means to you,鈥� says Suhail. 鈥淚f the other person heard something else, then he has to respond to that, you see? If someone is extremely conservative and hardline, let them be conservative and hardline. It鈥檚 their right; it鈥檚 their prerogative. You can鈥檛 be moderate unless you鈥檙e compared to more extremist persons 鈥� What I can鈥檛 allow to happen is that one person will bulldoze the other, and when people try and do that, my role is to try to calm people down.鈥�

As an example, a few years ago someone on Twitter started verbally attacking Suhail. 鈥淗e said, Suhail, I hope they take your children so you know where we鈥檙e coming from on this. Of course, this is a very hard thing to hear. He accused us of being in the Ministry of Interior. But I replied to him calmly, and eventually he apologized. He showed a picture of where he鈥檚 living and said his wife had sickle cell disease.鈥�

The BFRCD invited the man to one of the dialogue dinners, and he came. Since, the man has hosted the BFRCD for events in his neighborhood and has become an unofficial ambassador for the Foundation.

Are grassroots community efforts like this the solution to social reconciliation in Bahrain? Perhaps, but we also should be careful not to idealize such a process. The BFRCD admits that the absolute 鈥渉ardliners鈥� never come to their events despite repeated invitations, and the hardest piece for the foundation is quantifying its impact. And as for their members?

鈥淚t won鈥檛 bring significant change in a very short period of time. But it鈥檚 something that, if done over a long period of time with consistency, will have a lasting effect, I think,鈥� speculates Yacoub.

*[Note: The podcast erroneously claims that Yacoub is a current member of the Bahrain Foundation for Reconciliation and Civil Discourse; he is only a supporter of their efforts. This feature was originally published by聽, a partner institution of聽51吃瓜. Other podcasts can be found at the Kerning Cultures聽.]

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